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It’s not easy being a man. In these modern times, men are expected to do impossible things that are not logical. He should be a rich man, he should be handsome, he should be smart, he should know how to cook, he should always be with his partner in good times and bad, and other things. Although some of the listed things are logical. However, many women exchange money for real men.

Let’s look at a man with his family. A man who has a family, children, does everything for his family. He goes to a job that is dangerous or that he is away from home for a whole week. However, some women do not appreciate such men and demand impossible things.

Being a man is not easy. A real man fights and overcomes obstacles. Anything to make your family or loved one happy.

I knew a man who worked on a farm. Dangerous and tiring work. In the morning from 5 am to 5 pm. I came to visit him once. We sat outside on the terrace. A man or a friend asks his wife if he can make us coffee. His wife tells him to cook for himself. Later this man tells me that he has enough of everything.. At home he feels like a stranger and that he is not appreciated and that he has enough of everything but he still persists because he believes in a happy family. He also said that his wife goes to coffee with her friends every day and buys expensive things, but he hardly affords himself anything.

We men had the role of being the protectors of the family. Now, in these modern times, being a man is more difficult than in the entire history of mankind. Let’s take a divorcing couple. Who do you think will have more rights? Why are impossible things asked of men?

I used to be a good friend. He always told me that he does everything he can to make his family happy. He also told me, as a father of three children, that when he comes home from work every day, he goes to the playground with the children, while his wife threatens him and tells him to do this or that. When he comes home from the playground, he helps cook, wash the dishes, bathe the children and prepare food for school. But still he is not appreciated by his wife and that he can’t do it anymore. With tears in my eyes when he told me this, I was just silent, I was speechless. After a couple of months, he said that his wife was cheating on him. Her first and last words were that she was leaving him because he was worthless and deserved something better. He committed suicide 2 months after the divorce.

Sometimes I wonder if the new way of life is to blame, which is at every step when you look at people with phones in their hands or something else. All these social networks are traps for family people or people in a relationship. They distance us from someone.

When will the time come when men can again be real men who are allowed to take care of their family or loved one? All the infrastructure was built with the sweat and blood of men. Cities, roads, networks and much more. When will certain people have the sense that men are just men. When will they no longer expect us to be rich, beautiful, smart. or more? To be a real man is the one who works. He is not egoistic for the whole world, he is hardworking, he is not lazy, he gives everything for the family – his heart, his energy and his whole life for the family.

The future sets the standards. I see the present where a man is seen as a wallet or as a muscular doll. Whatever a man does or says in the eyes of the law is always a male demon. Thanks for reading..hope you enjoyed it.