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At a certain age, many people simply give up on finding love (again). They feel that they are too old, that no one will want them, or that there is no one who will like them. Especially those who have gone through a divorce are afraid of being hurt again. Many stop believing in love. Those who would try, however, do not know where and how to meet someone new. They run in the same circles, hang out with the same people. In a bar or at a concert, they can’t just approach a nice lady or gentleman and invite him for a drink, because they would probably make the wrong impression. Often, they don’t even have anyone to go to a concert with, because everyone is comfortably bored at home with their family. The most accessible way – getting to know each other online and at dedicated events – is the most alien to them. Although speed dating is the most popular event on a global scale and has long been adopted by younger people, just like dating apps, the over 45 generation still has reservations and prejudices about this form of finding a partner. “Isn’t this for the desperate, those who really don’t know any other way,” is a common concern. On the other hand, they fear evaluation and rejection. Can I still be attractive to someone? How will I feel if no one chooses me? Am I a loser if I look for a partner this way?

People who take their destiny into their own hands and do what they want to do are definitely not losers. At most, these are the ones who sit on the couch, whinge and feel sorry for themselves, but at the same time they don’t even try.”

Over the years, especially men kind of surrender to fate and stick to the beaten tracks. They are also more skeptical about meeting at singles events or more timid. Even after ten years of singleness, they are convinced that they do not need help in finding a life partner.

Once you make a decision and open the door to new opportunities, everything is easy. At our events, we provide a relaxed and pleasant atmosphere, we walk around and chat before we start to break the ice. Those who don’t find a partner right away come the second time with ease, without hesitation.”

Many over 50s are primarily looking for new friends with similar interests. That they will have someone to go for a walk, to the cinema, to a concert with. If a crush develops, so much the better. “When you are single after 20 years, and your friends are all in couples, someone in the same situation is a great support to you,

He must have blue eyes. But some, as far as expectations are concerned, are untouched by the years. They want a partner who looks like the hero of some particularly cheesy romance novel.A special group of women who are actively looking for a partner are strong and successful women. They have everything – material security, a busy life and a career, but they lack a partner. They expect a lot of added value from him, he should be the real icing on the cake. “They want an educated, tall, hairy, groomed, attentive, loving, non-smoking, non-drinking man who puts them first.I always emphasize that nothing is as important as the energy of a person, which you can only feel live. That only face to face you can find out how someone will sit in your heart. The love language we speak is also important. If two people speak different languages, it is difficult for them to catch each other. We can learn, but isn’t it better to start with someone who will know what you need to feel loved????